Do Me Without Saying It
Monday September 10th, 2007 in Desire, Doing It, Pleasure, Questions Answered, Sex, romance and relationships | 1 Comment »
A reader wants to know how she can tell her boyfriend that she’s in the mood without explicitly stating, “can we do it
in the dark, do it in the park? oh yea?”
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Barring the whole kittie with it’s ass up in the air followed by a coy “meow” trick, there are a few things you can do.
For starters, the eyes are an amazing way of communicating. It’s a bit hard to describe, but the “bedroom eyes” approach
can be a real turn on for some. It’s the kind of look where your cheek muscles are a tad bit slacked, the lids of your
eyes are half-open, and the eyes themselves are filled with focus and lust. If you can pull this off without managing to look
like a stroke victim with wall eyes, you’re doing good!
Example, thanks to the gorgeous Rita Hayworth:
(c) imdb.com
Body language is another force to be reckoned with, coy body language that is, not the smacking his face with your boobs kind.
If you two are sitting next to each other on the couch, simply crossing your leg over the other and lightly caressing your leg
or foot against his may get his bumps goosed. When you lean in for a hug, you can easily tilt your pelvis towards his in a
“wanna dry hump until we wet hump?” sort of way. Then again, if you’ve tried being casually flirtatious with him with no success, next time
he walks by you down the hall you can try a slightly less subtle approach. Grab him by his collar, slam him against the wall and say, “I want
to feel you inside me” or “I want to bend you over, boyfriend,” whatever works for you two.
While I am aware that there is definitely a level of hotness involved in a silent agreement that now is the time to bump and grind, there is also
a good amount of deliciousness involved in openly talking about needs, desires and yes, fucking. If you feel like you can’t openly
talk about sex, desire or pleasure with your boytoy, then I’d suggest taking a look at your relationship as a whole.
Oh, and sexy lingerie.
oh yea, and whatever that one guy says, maybe “he’s not that into you.”
