Archive for December, 2009

This should be called “Fetish of the Weak” because these men are so puny and helpless (on their own accord and in the interest of satiating their desires) and must be lifted and carried by strong women.

That’s right folks, this weeks’ fetish is “Lift and Carry,” where very strong (usually) women lift up and carry around (usually) men. Some may think that this is a subset of infantilism (adult babies), however I’d venture to simply put this is in the submissive set of kink being that this generally revolves around giving up control and perhaps even being taken care of. However, I wouldn’t go forth and say this is the only reason, as I imagine that there are an incredibly diverse amount of reasons why individuals become erotically charged by Lift and Carry. Hell, looks fun to me!

Let’s watch some youtube videos on this, shall we?

The song in this one is an interesting choice.




Ok, this also has a pretty interesting song choice. Evanescence? really? Ok, I get the “Wake Me Up Inside,” nice touch.







Before you jump to the conclusion that this is “weird,” just think about how for some, giving up control is an amazingly erotic and powerful experience. Just as it can be incredibly pleasurable to take control. And I don’t know about you, but I could really go for someone lifting me up and having me do the helicopter on their legs. Just saying is all.

Thanks to Justin C. for letting me know about lift and carry.

In a worldwide poll conducted by www.onepoll.com, 15,000 women who have sex with men from 20 countries were asked to rank nations based on best male lovers. If you’re German, British, or Swedish you may want to skip this post. Out of 20 nations German men were considered to be the smelliest, British men were too damn lazy and Swedish considered too quick. Sorry Sweden, I guess eugenics doesn’t account for everything.

Where did America fall? American men were ranked the fifth worst nation, citing that they are too rough. Maybe this is from all the football they watch, thinking that reenacting an offensive play in the bedroom would delight their sex partner. It’s a pity that they don’t follow through and perform a little touch down victory dance after making their partner orgasm.

As far as the worlds best lovers goes, the top four aren’t very surprising considering the beliefs surrounding Latin lovers and romantic languages. Topping the list for best lovers is Spain, followed by Brazil, Italy and France.

So what can we learn from this? Men, shower regularly, try something kinky like doing it on your tippy-toes, and hold back that orgasm of yours. In the meantime, pick up some romantic Spanish sayings like “donde esta mis pantelones?”, learn how to serenade and specifically if you want to be more French, grab a paint brush and sex up your immediate family.